Today, only i realise, love can be shown in such a special way.

As my title goes - "Love is not the way you want it to be" ,everyone has their own unique way to express their love to their loves one. Don't ever make judgement like this - "he/she doesn't love me anymore" or "he/she doesn't love me the way I want" or even "why can't he/she love me that way?" Because you will never know how much he/she cares for you in their own way. I've just read an article which made me cry.

"My husband was an engineer. Since I met him, he was always an unflappable rock in my life. I knew he always had his feet firmly planted on the ground, and it seemed that no matter what else went crazy, he would be the one constant.

Three years of romance, and two years of marriage later, I got tired.He was the most unromantic man I know. He never bought me flowers, he never surprised me, and nothing changed in our marriage. After some time, I finally found the courage to tell him that I wanted to leave him. He just sat there, speechless. My heart froze... what kindof manwas I married to that didn't even know what to say to make me stay?

After a while, he spoke, "What can I do to change your mind?"
"I will stay if you can give me a good answer to this question," I replied coldly.
"If I asked for a flower that grew on a cliff, and youknew that getting it for me means certain death,would you get it for me?" His face grew troubled.
"Can I give you an answer tomorrow morning?" he asked.

Hearing that kind of answer, my heart died. I knew that I could never be happy with a man who couldn't even give me a answer straight away.

The next morning, when I woke up, he was missing. In the living room, under a warm glass ofmilk, was a note. My eyes grew misty as I read it ..

"Dear, I have my answer. I will never pick the flower for you if it meant certain death. But before you leave, I hope you can give me a chance to give you my reasons ....You will always sit in front of the computer and type about for the whole day, but everytime you will end up in tears cause your formatting will always go all over the place... I need my fingers, to do the formatting for you, so your tears will become smiles.You like to travel, but would always get lost ... I need my eyes, so that I can bring youto the nicest places on earth.Every time you leave the house, you would always forget your keys ... I need my legs, so that I can run home to open the door for you. You never knew how to take care of yourself... I need my hands ,to help you get rid of the pesky white hair you hate so much when you grow old, to trim your nails, to feed you. So you see, that's why I can't pick the flower for you. Until I find someone who loves you more than I do, I will need my body to take care of you.If you accept my reasons, then open the door,where I will be waiting with your favorite muffin."

With tears streaming from my eyes, I opened the door, and there he stood, with a extremely worried look on his face. He still had nothing to say, but just stood there waving the packet he had in his hand in front of me. And then I knew for a fact that I will never find another man who will ever love me as much as he does. Just because someone doesn't love you the way you want them to doesn't mean that they don't love you with all they have ..."

Crystal said, girls do have very high expectations for relastionship, but boys only know to give they very basic things that they have. I totally agree with this statement. It's so true. Maybe it's because boys can never understand what girls want. But now, I learn to accept, and to forgive. Accept the way he shows his care, his love, his commitment, and his promises. Forgive him for not being romantic as I expected.

Love is complicated. We can hardly find someone who really knows what's love actually is. I don't know whether I know how to love. But, in front of him, I become so different. I know I love him, very very much! I love the way he looks at me, holds me, hugs me, kisses me, caresses me, touches me. I love watching him. Or in another i shall say, I enjoy watching him. His actions, his smiles, his cuteness, I observe intently. I never want to give up the precious relationship between he and I. Never think of it. I have confidence that we can make it until the end, no matter what people says.

Today, i've learnt a lesson from him. His initiative had touched me deeply. Although he was angry, but he had tried his best toe make my tears become wide wide smile. Thank you for letting me know how much you actually care for me. I'm so sorry for the misunderstanding, baby..

I will not want to change our relationship. It will remain, from the past, to the current, and in the future.

" I have you to be with, everything will be alright."